I can relate to that. I agree, it's all of the actions for me and not just the penetration. To have that level of trust & comfortableness with someone is awesome, my wife & I certainly do. it's amazing and the best relationship I've ever had, in every way possible. We both took the day off from work today. I planned a spa day as an early birthday celebration. Lunch after, then home to a house without kids and we got pretty wild.