Oguzhan Kaloglu: Turkish Teen Kills Himself on Facebook Live

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  1. Airbornemama

    Airbornemama DA's Resident Trauma-Mama Staff Member

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    You are SO very correct Ivan. As A parent who has lost 2 boys my heart goes out to this poor Mother not only because she lost her son but because of the last images she saw of him. I am still haunted by my son going through his brain swelling so badly he became brain dead at home. We were told to go home twice by the hospital and it was to late when they finally admitted him. She will be left with nightmares and horrible anxiety.
     
  2. Hopedenial

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    I have lost 2 people I cared deeply about to suicide. I feel quite a bit for them.
     
  3. Killer Penis

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    I can't see how in the world we live in today we haven't worked out how to help people that feel this way and actually help them rather then forget about them. I have a sister who is very depressed and the best people can do is lock her in a padded room for her own protection.
     
  4. Dream Catcher

    Dream Catcher Life is but a dream.

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    I agree with you! 100%

    Take time to explain to your kids, friends, siblings...whomever, that they are important and they matter. They are NOT weak, they are not stupid. All they feel is pain. They don't suddenly get a light bulb above their head and think "What are mom and dad gonna think and feel?". It is the job of parents, family, and friends (maybe even strangers) to explain that the fucktard they are willing to shoot themselves over isn't going to give a rats ass, they will somehow use it to get sympathy for themselves. That's how assholes work. So ya, practice compassion and acceptance with everyone because that kid ready to blow himself away is no less a person than you are.

    I'm taking my attitude out for breakfast. I think it deserves pancakes.
     
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  5. Hopedenial

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    The best we can do is make ourselves available to them and let them know we are. Beyond that... well... meds. Depression is a chemical imablance. Brain not creating enough serotonin. Usually, at least. But a lot of people don't trust them and with good reason. Still. They can be immensely helpful.
     
  6. Killer Penis

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    I hope that it gets better in years to come.
    And you are well informed o_O
     
  7. Hopedenial

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    Apparently I'm also a balance.
    Imbalance*
     
  8. Killer Penis

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    Who said that and why?
     
  9. Hopedenial

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    I'm an idiot. Thought I mispelled "imbalance" as "imabalance." I did mispell it but not like that.

    Hey. So. The weather...
     
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  10. Needed to giggle at that shout jaba jaba jaba jaba
     
  11. Clacker Valve

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    Did Allah snackbar died?
     
  12. BlackRosePrincess3

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    The panic in the mother's voice, the father trying to take control of the situation. Imagine if they were not home and had to see their son laying like that without taking action right away.
     
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